So Confused its not even funny....

[HeavenlyQueen]

Okay this might get long.....

First off let me say that I'm NOT very experienced with boys and all due to my brother's interference.

So at school I'm very good friends with some of the band members ( who by the way are extremely freaky). So anyways there's this girl named D****(I'm not sure if I should put the whole name) Well anyways her brother, R***** likes me. Apparently he saw me on picture day and so he asked the other band members ( he's apart of the band) and they told him who I was. Then one day he was looking through D*****'s phone and saw my name and called me. We talked and it was fine and all and we decided to meet one day, but we never set up a date and place so we lost touch for a few weeks. Then one day I was looking for D**** because I let her borrow my literature book and I needed for my homework that night so I went to the band room before going home. I asked everyone if they saw her or not. Then out of nowhere this uh...well short guy came out saying " My sister? My sister?" over and over again( there's alot of D**** at school) and I was like "yes" and he said "no". And I was with my friend I was like I almost went with him and there's nothing wrong with him he's nice....he's just not my type. Anyways after that I didn't hear from him until one day he woke me up early in the morining and he was like " I thought we were going to meet uo" and I told him that we already did although it wasn't very formal. And so he tried to set up another date but I had to get ready to go somewhere so I told him to call back but he never did. SO now I'm avoiding him and all and I told me friend and she said " Kick him to the curb" but then I told her that he was nice and she said " then gently lean him onto the curb". Obviously that didn't help and now he's calling all the time and I don't know what to do....  



Please HELP!!!!!

[Diaya]

let me see if i can help you. here are some suggestion  
1.how about using some manga that fix your problem.  
2.or just hook him up with another girl or break it down on hime   .
3.or just tell him a lie(like that u already have a bf ) .
4.or just tell him the truth and get over it.  
5.or ask him to be your friend and that you want to try something new  
6.or say that you aren't my type but can we be friend  
7.or you can say i am so sorry but i can't date yet but you can be my friend  
8.or say that i can be your girlfriend because i am not good enough but can u be my friend  
9.or use your heart and brave to break down the person but in a gentle voice  
10.or just BREAK him down  
11. or JUST FOLlow your heart 
12.ask for more suggestion from me . sorry but i can write more just ask me

for more suggest ask me the "Mistress of Life/Death" (hahahahahah)
remember these are only suggestion

[yuridiculous]

AHAHA, it's all about the number 10!


oh the mistress of life/death is so wise.

[Xye]

"then gently lean him onto the curb" *laughs*

So...you don't like him? Then just DUMP HIM XDD 

[HeavenlyQueen]

I've never had to do that before....I told you I'm inexperienced with this kind of stuff, and technically we aren't together...

[Xye]

Tell him you are not interested in him =D Just in case he likes you and stuff 

[HeavenlyQueen]

you make it sound so easy....well here goes!

[ccstrc]

Do tell us what happens after what you did. And how you did things. I'm really interested 

But do your best i guess!! I know you'll make a good decision 

If you need more advices, there are plenty of ppl here willing to help ^^

[Sharwin]

This advice is probably late, and is meant to be taken with a sarcastic grin. xD...

1. If he calls you out, always invite a friend a long with you for a third wheel.

2. Declare yourself a lesbian and tell him you are not interested in men.

3. Leak out a secret rumor of your dislikes in men and mention exactly him.

4. Use the "I am too busy with school to worry about other things at the moment" card.

5. Use a fake boyfriend and trick him into thinking you are taken.

6. Find out his dislikes in women and become that.

7. Fake story about an abusive ex who has traumatized you from dating.

8. Find out if he's rich or not. If he is, screw "type" or "preference" and go for him. If he's not rich, dump him to the side, because money is where it's at.

If you ever need anymore advice, Sharwin's 100% or your money back guarantee is always here. 

[HeavenlyQueen]

lol thats absolutely hilarious....

But ummm, I actually took the Mistress of Life/Death's advice number 4.

It was in person and difficult but it had to be done ( my voicemail was always full, I couldn't take it anymore )

I'm still friends with his sis but not him, he ignores me but I couldn't care less. ( that might sound mean but its true) LOL

[Diaya]

yay i am so happy for you..

[Hoang]

that was pretty ockword and amusing at the same time =], hey mistress, can i come to you in the future for advice? lol....btw queen, i'm in my freshman year too...15 though =]

[HeavenlyQueen]

@buttcheeks ~ yeah it was awkward..... and your 15? Why does it feel like I'm the youngest person in the entire group?

[Sharwin]

... Haha, don't worry, I wish I was 15 again...  D;...

[Hoang]

i dunno, can't wait til 18 though, i'm enlisting first chance i get, it'll be fun

[werr]

1. If he calls you out, always invite a friend a long with you for a third wheel.

2. Declare yourself a lesbian and tell him you are not interested in men.

I dig these two.

10.or just BREAK him down 
11. or JUST FOLlow your heart 

And these.

Although I do feel sorry for the poor guy. HQ, you actually dumped him before you even dated, if you think about it o_O

But the fact that after you rejected him he is avoiding you, means he is a sucker and doesn't deserve you anyway...

[HeavenlyQueen]

Thanks Werr! :)

@buttcheeks : do you mean enlisting in the army?

[nancy]

10.or just BREAK him down  

Nothing like a good set down xD
But uh...some guys get creepy/tenacious so be careful with this choice ^_^

[Diaya]

lol Queen i am the youngest of all
i am in the one digit age

[HeavenlyQueen]

@Diaya : Thats not funny....are you serious? How old are you 9?

[werr]

@Diaya : Thats not funny....are you serious? How old are you 9?

o_O a one digit old Proofreader

[Hoang]

Thanks Werr! :)

@buttcheeks : do you mean enlisting in the army?

Marines =], no offense to the army, i just think Marines is harder and tougher.
And young people get on all the time, btw, when i get an overseas assignment, i'll send you a gift from japan =D

[Xye]

LOL i ddint know Daiya was 1 digit aged O____O

[HeavenlyQueen]

oh boy....what else do we not know? LOL

[werr]

oh boy....what else do we not know? LOL

What's at Earth's Core? What causes gravity? How does a fertilized egg become a human? Why do we sleep? Why do placebos work? Will forests slow global warming - or speed it up? How does the brain produce consciousness? Why don't we understand turbulence? How many galaxies there are? Is there something faster than light? Why doesn't honey spoil? Why can't we regrow body parts? Why do we still have big questions?

Many. Why do you ask?

XD

[HeavenlyQueen]

@werr.....now u know i didnt mean it like that.....

but it was funny

[chels]

ah the awkwardness of not being able to or not wanting to "go there" when letting someone down. whether u got experience or not its gunna be that wway. not much u can do but lie through teeth, makes it more awkward, or suck it up and tell the truth, sometimes makes it more awkward to. but thats about all u can do. just gotta deal with the situation, it happens to the best of us.

[Hoang]

oh boy....what else do we not know? LOL

What's at Earth's Core? What causes gravity? How does a fertilized egg become a human? Why do we sleep? Why do placebos work? Will forests slow global warming - or speed it up? How does the brain produce consciousness? Why don't we understand turbulence? How many galaxies there are? Is there something faster than light? Why doesn't honey spoil? Why can't we regrow body parts? Why do we still have big questions?

Many. Why do you ask?

XD

werr, the sad thing is, i can also answer about 80-90% of those questions  
though i would need about 1 page to explain each questions xD.... speaking of 1 page assignments, i have yet to do my 3 separate 1 page assignments from my biologie teacher

[Furgeson]

7. Fake story about an abusive ex who has traumatized you from dating.

8. Find out if he's rich or not. If he is, screw "type" or "preference" and go for him. If he's not rich, dump him to the side, because money is where it's at.

If you ever need anymore advice, Sharwin's 100% or your money back guarantee is always here. 

Mwahaha.

BTW, anyone here's aged TRIPLE DIGITS? cooollll... :D

[HeavenlyQueen]

you're not the only one.....my love life is nonexistent as well......
someone asked me " So how's your love life?"
you wanna know what I said..... " What love life?.... I don't even know what that is anymore..."

[Furgeson]

 
My hero!
lol. Lalaleeel. How is everyone, this fine day?

[Nyhte]

ditto to that, i don't have a love life either. Always too busy with school (not kidding) with my labs, classes and work. I barely get to see my friends and party let alone give time to an individual and split it with my friends and such. My x complained about not spending enough time or attention to him and how I treat my friends better or such silly ideas really. But that's life I'd say and you make choices in your life so gotta deal with the consequences that come with it tis what I say.

[werr]

oh boy....what else do we not know? LOL

What's at Earth's Core? What causes gravity? How does a fertilized egg become a human? Why do we sleep? Why do placebos work? Will forests slow global warming - or speed it up? How does the brain produce consciousness? Why don't we understand turbulence? How many galaxies there are? Is there something faster than light? Why doesn't honey spoil? Why can't we regrow body parts? Why do we still have big questions?

Many. Why do you ask?

XD

werr, the sad thing is, i can also answer about 80-90% of those questions  
though i would need about 1 page to explain each questions xD.... speaking of 1 page assignments, i have yet to do my 3 separate 1 page assignments from my biologie teacher

You couldn't. You could speculate, you could theorise, but you couldn't answer them for sure.

[Sharwin]

Looking at ur love problems that are open on an online forum
and then looking at my nonexistent love life...
makes me wonder why the hell I have to stick with single sex education

Love is overrated. Unless they are rich of course. :D... So much more interesting things to do in this world than fall in love ^^;

[Catriona]

Boys...... *sigh*

I guess you just tell him the truth. That's the best way. I mean if you lie to him, both of you will get hurt later on. You are only 14!! You have plenty of time to learn... anyways, best of luck!

[Furgeson]

Looking at ur love problems that are open on an online forum
and then looking at my nonexistent love life...
makes me wonder why the hell I have to stick with single sex education

Love is overrated. Unless they are rich of course. :D... So much more interesting things to do in this world than fall in love ^^;

I totally agree.
Even if that means going against what I just said...

I'm borreeeeed.
lalaladeee