How to get rid of...

[HeavenlyQueen]

Hey Everyone! Maybe you all can help..?

Okay, this is beginning to ruin my winter break not to mention I want to smash my new phone!

Okay so there is this guy who is beginning to piss me of. Last year he confessed to me and I kinda liked him but turned him down, sorta. After that we would see each other in the hall and we wouldn't say anything to each other. Then during the summer break he would text me every other week a little.  :angry1:Then starting my first semester this year we saw each and were practically forced to speak to each other.... then once again communication stopped and even though I would see him in the hall we would make eye contact but never speak to each other.  Now its winter break and he is once again texting me and I know what he's getting at. However, honestly, I don't really want to talk to him and its kinda annoying now (also I like someone else). There is only so long I can ignore his texts and even if I do, he'll probably confront me when school starts up again. UGH!!!


Any advice?
-HQ

[icewing]

IGNORE HIM. COLDLY. like ICEY (lol pun?)

[Mister Want]

Like icewing said. Ignore him.

And that doesn't mean, ignore him for a month and then talk to him again. You'll just probably confuse the poor guy.

Or maybe you should just talk to him once--this once being a one time final conversation thing.

Nah.

Ignore is good. It just might not clear up anything between you two--like past talks, arguments and what not.

[HeavenlyQueen]

even if I did, I we have mutual friends they would start wondering and try to mediate

[Mister Want]

Then, you got to end it somehow, right?

It's always hard to end/stop something like this. Especially when you have mutual friends. >_>

If you're not going to ignore him, then I suggest a final talk, email or text between you two. Depending on what kind of person he is, perhaps, you could state clearly how you feel or something. He's going to keep bothering you if he doesn't think there's anything wrong between you two and/or if he thinks that the relationship between you two can be mended.

[HeavenlyQueen]

i know, you're right....but I hate confrontation....

[icewing]

ok. first, nothing's gonna happen. i mean....he's not gonna STALK YOU to your house and jump through your window and kidnap you....O_O

[HeavenlyQueen]

well, you never know....

[Saki]

I would say.. directly confront him about this problem. By directly I mean face-to-face conversation. It's more "serious" than a "don't talk / text me" on the phone / msn.

People can be dense sometimes and the only way to get the message across is to be upfront about it.

[Disturbance]

Yeah i agree. You need to talk to him about it.

[HeavenlyQueen]

just thinking about it is.....awkward.

[icewing]

GO HQ!! SHOW HIM HQ.

if it was Icey, Icey would whip out her ZIRNHFACSOD and.....mehehehe...:]

[Mister Want]

Thinking about it is awkward, yes. But it's only awkward for a little while.

If you don't talk to him, then your feeling of awkwardness lasts longer. Besides, you have all these wonderful people supporting you.

[icewing]

EXCACTLY.  hm...
ok. the problem is...HOW to confront him.

i don't think you can just say, "hey um...can i talk to you like...." etc. it's gonna be a misunderstanding....:|

[Disturbance]

Do you have time for a chat?

[icewing]

chatting.....i wouldn't suggest online chatting. yes. confrontation HQ!!! GO HQ!

[Disturbance]

As in go up to him and tell lor

[icewing]

HQQQQQQQ when are you going to...CONFRONT him?

[Disturbance]

she probbaly forgot about this thread

[icewing]

xD. lol.

she probably already resolved it.....hopefully?

[Disturbance]

-stays hopeful-