So.. I need an advice...

Started by Diaya, August 04, 2011, 17:25

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Diaya

Hello, It's me, Diaya!  :hi:
So, I came back from my long absence and I am trying to be active even school is about to start. But, first I need your advice about school. If you guy didn't know; I am going to be high school once school start.  I need your advice about being a freshmen in high school. I am so freaking scare about starting high school. These are some questions that keep on going in my head.
1. Are there bully?
2. Are there a lot of homework?
3. Is high school hard?
4. Do freshmen get pick on?
5. Will I get lost?
6. Are the subjects hard?
7. Will there be bad rumors?
8. etc..
Help me!  :bow: Thank You!  :indotz:
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Catriona

1. Are there bully?
High school children are usually more mature than middle school children. Calm down. Relax. Just don't flaunt yourself too much in the beginning and be nice. You will be fine! And be confident!!!! I am sure you will find a group of close friends, but don't do drugs or have sex or be very mean. [even though I don't think you will] As for boyfriend, wait till sophomore year at earliest because you should get familiar with high school. Oh, and WORK HARD!!! Do remember your future college!

2. Are there a lot of homework?
Depends on your high school. I went to a highly competitive one in New York and ya it is a lot of work, but not impossible. Certainly work hard though and go to a good college.

3. Is high school hard?
It's not hard if you don't procrastinate and if you keep a positive attitude and healthy body. Don't stress out man. Think about it, why would there be college if high school is impossible?

4. Do freshmen get pick on?
Usually not, unless you are really really annoying and attract a lot of attention. Make some friends from a year or two higher than you [older nice/smart guys... <3 but don't fall in love]. They give you valuable information and can help you from time to time.

5. Will I get lost?
No. Only on the first two days xD

6. Are the subjects hard?
there are regular, honors, and ap classes. you should speak with people who took them and decide on whether you should or not, though I suggest you to do as much as you can handle. Certainly make good relationships with teachers, as they will give you better grades, but don't suck up because they won't like that. Just work hard and show interest and they will love you!

7. Will there be bad rumors?
Not likely. High school people are usually too busy to notice you if you don't spread rumors or do REALLY BAD THINGS.

8. etc..
Don't just follow the crowd and go against your morals. It is important to not be totally isolated, but don't misbehave :)

High School people are more mature, so relax~
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Renny

Here is my advice for high school:
Frst your questions
1 In high school there are still bullies. Its new start for everyone so there might not be so much bulling.
2 It depends on the school you go to, your teachers and our subjects. Mostly you will have homework but not so much that you would be buried in work.
3. No its just different. the grades are no harder than the ones you passed.
4. sometime they do... I dont know about the school you are going to but in my school the "freshmen" get initiated so they loss their know it all attitude
5. Maybe, depending on how big the school is. You will soon know the place off by heart.
6. Not much harder than what you went through. If you work hard it will be easy
7. About you.. not unless you do something bad. Rumors are everywhere but you can choose not to be bothered by them.

Be yourself!! dont be pulled into something you dont want to do.

Quote that helped me  "high school is what you make of it. It can be good or bad depending on your view. A school is not bad or good it only depends on your view of it"

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Diaya

hmm. Thank you  :bow:
lol btw i already got me a cute boyfriend.. except that we are going to different school   :donwan:
"Mistress of Life/Death"
I can help you with you life problem and foresee your future.So just ask me if you need any help.
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I am back with more promises!!<3 {-Goddess Diaya}

Furgeson

Here is Lily's cynical advice. she suggests you listen to Cat and Renny XD
1. Are there bully? Depends on what kind of schools you go to. As long as you don't stand out too much it'll be fine (Meaning: Get friends fast. Then you won't be picked on.) I'm sure you'll be fine though! <3
2. Are there a lot of homework? Yes. Lots. They lie to you and say they'll "ease you into the workload" but it's all lies. Oh, time management...
3. Is high school hard? Yes. It's a whole new level of social tension and angst.
4. Do freshmen get pick on? Yes, you will be hated by other grades. And you will hate the sophomores and worship the seniors just because that's how high school is then.
However, being a frosh is awesome because you're still really enthusiastic about HS. After frosh year, the excitement just goes away. I really suggest you try as many new things as you can. HS is full of new opportunities, and unlike later, you can still screw up and not be screwed. XD
5. Will I get lost? Depends on how big your school is - Like Ren and Cat said.
6. Are the subjects hard? This varies from person to person (I don't know where your strengths lie, so I can't say.) Usually, there will be rumors about which teachers/subjects are the hardest.
7. Will there be bad rumors? Agreed with Ren and Cat.
8. My advice is bad advice, but the truth is that you can only understand HS once you've been through it. You will undoubtedly be way too nervous on your first day of school, crash into a wall or two, and forget something kind of important (We all do) but don't worry. Once it's past you, you will laugh about how stressed you were over every detail. Freshman year is much less stressful compared to other years of high school though. Enjoy it, have fun, and don't just care about homework.
If your HS has clubs, join some that interest you! :3

Diaya

well. hmm. thank you lily  :shy:

mm.. what happen if i accidentally fell on someone LOLS. im that clumsy.. *skip
"Mistress of Life/Death"
I can help you with you life problem and foresee your future.So just ask me if you need any help.
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I am back with more promises!!<3 {-Goddess Diaya}

Renny

well then you make friends with that person  :=X:

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Diaya

"Mistress of Life/Death"
I can help you with you life problem and foresee your future.So just ask me if you need any help.
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I am back with more promises!!<3 {-Goddess Diaya}

Renny

see high school is not scary  :=X:

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