Kind of people you hate the most?

[Koyue]

The ones that scare me, too.

Also, Yuukii, I'm intentionally not gonna post in that "Who's going to post next?" thread. How to guess correctly: find out who's on at that time or will be later on.

[Yuukii]

Ah, whatever. I just posted for fun 

A lot people scares me, and my moms says I don't smile, scaring people.

[Koyue]

I just remembered. I used to hate two of my hs teachers. The first one for being lazy at teaching; the other one for not being flippin' prepared to teach an AP class and taking on too much stuff. ^&^*.

[Yuukii]

Speaking of teacher, we have the worse teacher ever. The most pervertic and mood-swing teacher. Ugh, I'm glad he won't be my teacher next year.

[`Roze`]

I hate people who whine about having no money, have no nice things but say they are too "sick" or theirs something "wrong" with them that they can't work. There's nothing wrong with you, go out and get a freaking job and stop mooching off other people! 

That's another. People who expect you to do things for them like fix their computers, help clean, fix their cars, etc but when you ask for a favor(and will pay!) say, to watch your dogs over the weekend all it is is excuses and not very good ones! Like. "I don't think I'll be up in time to do that."   

Oh oh oh, how about people that think that they've HELPED YOU SOOO MUCH IN THEIR LIFE AND THAT YOU SHOULD BE KISSING THEIR FEET WHEN IN FACT ITS THE OTHER WAY AROUND?!?

Then there is your typical people whom are arrogant, self-absorbed, bullies, compulsive liars, etc. The list goes on.

[/end rant]

[Harrstein]

hmmm i do not hate that much. i part my hate over a big group so i dont really hate individuals

I hate people who

• cant shut the fuck up in trains
• dont use indicators while driving
• are ignorant (aka stupid and dont realize this)
• act childish while they are grown up
• "borrow" without asking knowing i need it

but yeah most of the times i facepalm and mumble a bit about them only fooling themselves

[Rayne]

hmmm i do not hate that much. i part my hate over a big group so i dont really hate individuals

I hate people who

• cant shut the fuck up in trains
• dont use indicators while driving
• are ignorant (aka stupid and dont realize this)
• act childish while they are grown up
• "borrow" without asking knowing i need it

but yeah most of the times i facepalm and mumble a bit about them only fooling themselves

~is childish when are grown up~

[Mhie]

Hmmmmmmm.

Kind of people I hate:

* bullies
* arrogant/show-off
* too much excuses
* sluts
What I hate the most is.... Plastics/Traitors!! Talking behind someone.

[Angel~]

Meddlers. Definately meddlers. Destroyong chances with guys and so forth. *grumble grumble*

[Blobsndrees]

what I hate the most is people who lie and doesn't have the shame to feel bad about it, things like owing money and then not returning and even saying that they never borrowed in the first place, taking your stuff without permission and then saying they bought it.

Lying and pretending that you're the one wrong when it isn't even your fault and then when they do something outrageous, you try to get angry at them but then they get angry back at you instead and you don't know what to say back to them because logically they don't even have the right to be angry.

Accusing you of doing something that they did and then warping the events to seem like their version is true.

In the end I just hate people who lie, but not people who lie to protect themselves or people who tell white lies, it's people who tell lies that hurt other people that I hate the most.

I just don't get it. How are people able to do these things, how can they sleep at night!

[Vauxhall]

I definitely hate the type of people who are:

• liars
• the too-stupid-to-realise-own-stupidity type
• show-offs
• attention-seekers

but what I hate most are two-faced posers. ._.

[tinnako]

People who are arrogant, especially because usually they act that way because they want to prove something. I've known a lot of amazing people who are good at lots of different things, in lots of different ways, and it irritates me when someone acts like they're better than everyone. If you're good at something, it will just show. You don't need to 'prove' it by having a tantrum or expecting people to treat you differently!  And the most brilliant people I have known have also been incredibly kind and humble as well. Even if someone is talented, being mean to others just isn't justified. 

And yeah, people who are mean. We should be helping each other out and making the world a better place, right?

[SmileOfJoy]

I really dislike selfish, greedy, cut-throat, dishonest people.
To answer your question, yes, I did purposely make the fonts different sizes proportional to the amount of dislike I have for the specific character trait.
Sadly, I'm surrounded by those kinds of people in every classroom. It's hard to be nice to not-nice people.
Why can't everyone just choose to be a good person and do the right things?! 

[Blobsndrees]

I agree >.> selfish greedy and dishonest people are the worst.

[Aurelia]

I HIGHLY dislike people who stand by and watch while other people are getting trampled on by unfairness, just because their butts are saved and nothing is wrong with their lives. 

[Angel~]

I highly dislike the people who believe they are above the rest of us and deserve to be treated better as a result of that.

[Blobsndrees]

I've probably said this before but the worst kind of people are the ones who purposefully do something bad and then place the blame on someone else.

[Angel~]

Fake people, another obvious one

[Blobsndrees]

yeah, I think we've pretty much established all the hatable characters in the world in this forum post

[Angel~]

Indeed we have, good dor us!

[Vauxhall]

*thread necromancy*

*therapist persona*

I see you have identified all the atrocious traits a person can have. Now please discuss each trait. *nods in encouragement* Describe your experiences with these kinds of people (without naming them of course) and feel free to vent your frustration. Ask yourself: why are these people like this? Have you ever tried to understand them? Do you think they will continue to be this kind of person? Or was it just one instance that you witnessed these ugly traits? Why do you think that? Go on...

[Angel~]

*thread necromancy*

*therapist persona*

I see you have identified all the atrocious traits a person can have. Now please discuss each trait. *nods in encouragement* Describe your experiences with these kinds of people (without naming them of course) and feel free to vent your frustration. Ask yourself: why are these people like this? Have you ever tried to understand them? Do you think they will continue to be this kind of person? Or was it just one instance that you witnessed these ugly traits? Why do you think that? Go on...

Rant much Mr. Procrastinator?

[Vauxhall]

Shhhh. No.
I was trying to contribute more to reviving the forums. *nods*

[Angel~]

huh. By neglecting your writing assignments, love the dedication 

[Vauxhall]

Boring assignments, specifically.
The forums - no matter how dead they are - will always be more interesting than any assignment any day.
Be happy I'm contributing to The Second Coming, dangit. D:

[Angel~]

Of course I am, I almost singlehandedly revitalised and kept the forum going when I joined, so it's nice to see others give some effort   

[Vauxhall]

Why aren't you a forum moderator again...? > - >

But on the topic of this post... You were meant to answer my therapist questions!

[Angel~]

I'm not sure really... 

[Pau]

let me help! 

[Vauxhall]

Haha, good god.
THERE'S A FINE LINE between breathing life into the forums and just full-out spamming... >->

[Angel~]

I'm sorry Vally   

[Aurelia]

LOL angel poo.

Hahaha actually most of us are spamming... just to increase post count. 

[Vauxhall]

No, haha. You're alright. I was just pointing something out. (Y)

[Pau]

and I don't even know what Spamming means 

[Vauxhall]

Spamming: posting pointlessly, usually simply for your own benefit, without any regard to a thread's topic or without decent contribution to a discussion (ie irrelevant posts, unwarranted one word/emote posts, etc).

[Aurelia]

Anyway...

I am not a fan of teachers who say that "YOU'VE IMPROVED SOOOOOOOO MUCH!" while consistantly giving you 72% on your essays T.T EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

[Vauxhall]

What, like the same score every time? D: Confront your teach about it! Go up to her and go:
"Yo, teach. You been telling me I've been improving but yo, what's up with this score, huh?" *cue raised eyebrow and frown of disbelief*

[Pau]

don't forget to show the evidence (i.e your essays with the 72% mark on them)

[Aurelia]

I've tried! OTL

Maybe shes just not very nice because she's pregnant? >.>;

[Vauxhall]

^ No, what! Pregnancy is no excuse. (Then again, I wouldn't know since I'm a guy...)
But to prove my point, I have a teacher at uni who's pregnant and she's been nothing but extremely nice to everyone.

[Pau]

maybe cuz she's overjoyed that she's gonna have a child soon?

[Vauxhall]

@Pau
Yeah, that's true.

And blehhh, since no one's answering my therapist questions on page 15, for the sake of staying on topic, I shall. [spoiler]Ok, so I identified the following traits on a post I made Sept 27 last year:

• liars
• the too-stupid-to-realise-own-stupidity type
• show-offs
• attention-seekers
• two-faced posers

I must have been angry at someone when I wrote that, lol... But anywho... These were my therapist questions on page 15:

I see you have identified all the atrocious traits a person can have. Now please discuss each trait. *nods in encouragement* Describe your experiences with these kinds of people (without naming them of course) and feel free to vent your frustration. Ask yourself: why are these people like this? Have you ever tried to understand them? Do you think they will continue to be this kind of person? Or was it just one instance that you witnessed these ugly traits? Why do you think that? Go on...

I think for now, I'll talk about my first point: liars.

I really don't like people who lie because it makes me feel like they don't trust me enough, despite the fact that I've done nothing to destroy their trust. On top of that, I also don't like how people lie because they think "I can't handle the truth" because hell, how would they know that?

Anyway, my first real experience with liars was my third girlfriend, who lied through her teeth about her feelings. It hurt when I found out but it wasn't like I couldn't take the truth. We broke up and moved on, that was it.

I think she first lied to me because she knew what she did was wrong and she just couldn't tell me the truth - at first. I understand where she was coming from though, since it takes a lot of courage to tell someone the truth, especially when you know what you did was pretty bad. I reckon she'll continue to be this kind of person in the future mainly because once you lie to someone and you realise it's easy to get away with it, wouldn't you keep lying? I don't know, I reckon it's part of human nature. However, I think she will change and stop lying when she finds the right guy she'll truly care about. [/spoiler]

[`Shally.]

Well, you'll have to understand that if people just tell you EVERYTHING even their private matters & other things; some people are like freaked out of it and starts telling everyone else ; especially those who are strangers & don't know each other yet. It takes time for them to finally tells someone something that's true


OT: I hate a lot of types of people, but at the same time its like hating myself, because I'm kind of like those people.

• Bullies
• Rumors (A whole different level, kind of like bullying)
• Girls who act as if they're cute and special
• Boys who think that they're tough when they're not
• Fakes those who post fake pictures of them or pretend to be someone else to get attention

[Vauxhall]

^ True and you have a point. But I was applying this:
"I really don't like people who lie because it makes me feel like they don't trust me enough, despite the fact that I've done nothing to destroy their trust. On top of that, I also don't like how people lie because they think "I can't handle the truth" because hell, how would they know that?"
to people I know (and have known for a long time) and trust, haha. (Dude, especially when I think the trust was mutual since I really don't go around trusting a lot of people in real life.) It'd be weird for strangers to randomly start telling me their life stories and dark secrets and shiz. xD

Oh, now, Yuukari: apply the therapist questions! *nods encouragingly* I'm particularly interested in your last bullet too. (It's happened to me before... orz)

[`Shally.]

Well, I know what you said. But I mean like what if this person you know is afraid of the consequence that's going to happen. (i lie a lot and when I finally tell the truth ,they don't believe in me anymore) <-- this is probably what they're afraid of. Lying and telling the truth is both painful.

I will update this when I get home, atm I have to put this on pause...
GOING TO EDIT THIS SOOOON OR MAYBE A DAY OR ANOTHER DAY.....

I used to be like that, but I started to change, becuase beauty is on the inside not the outside.

[Pau]

so true. people with a golden heart are way better than people with a fake face.

[Aurelia]

^ I agree with that completely.

But, as humans we can be really quick to judge someone by appearance sometimes. Even if subconciously.

[Pau]

first impressions?

[Angel~]

I can see why you would hate people who pretend to be somebody they are not to be liked, but I think you should give them a chance, since they are most likely just very insecure...

[Aurelia]

Angel Poo, the truth in your words~ 

Although it is WAY easier said than done, taking the high road is hard. 

[Pau]

so true 

[Vauxhall]

That opens up a new door though: where would you draw the line? How long are you supposed to put up with other people's insecurity?

Example #1:
A friend of mine had an extremely insecure girlfriend at one point and she never took any of his compliments or noticed his loyalty to her. She'd make ugly comments about herself and was crazy about where he'd been/what he'd done/who he was with whenever they were apart. Ten months and by the end of it all, he broke it off with her because he was tired of her being "too frigging insecure".

Example #2:
Which I think relates to Yuukari's last bullet: "Fakes those who post fake pictures of them or pretend to be someone else to get attention".
[spoiler](Personal experience) Have you ever had someone follow you around to the point that they start mimicking your habits/mannerisms? Have you ever had someone stalk you to every hangout/party because they just like you that much? Have you ever had someone start to wear similar clothes that you wear? Have you ever had someone change their Facebook photo to one of your face for no apparent reason and gained a ton of internet female attention because of it (and it wasn't even a joke or anything - he legit scored a virtual girlfriend because of my face...)?
It's bloody creepy, that's what it's like.
Now I suppose this person did some of these things because we were mates and I'd helped them out through a tough part of their life. I also assume some of these actions (following me around and stuff) was brought on by insecurity (aka being left alone?) but honestly... I can forgive the FB picture thing since he took it down and apologised but duuuuude. How could someone feel comfortable with all that smothering attention going on? x-x[/spoiler]

[Aurelia]

I guess it's not so bad that your friend's girlfriend was insecure... Although you did say it got extreme. It was just that she was immensely clingy and possesive.

As to the second example... Yes I've had that, and I still put up with it. T.T Except they didn't go as far as doing the FB thing. That, is just too creepy for my liking. *shudder*

[Jess]

Well Vaux for the first thing I have done what your friends girlfriend did, but it was after I got hurt and I had trouble trusting people, so I thought that everybody was a not telling me the truth and cheating on me. It took me a long time to get back trusting people.

For the second thing, that has happened to me too, but my situation was bad. The girl who was doing it started telling everyone that the FB page was mine and it was my hook up page or something. I am sure what happened after that b/c everyone in town and the people I called my friends started calling me a HOE. After that I kind of stayed to myself and didn't talk to people.

[Pau]

I woulnd't really call them friends...
more like con artists?

[Aurelia]

Wow Jess, that's horrible... Jeez I hope they got what they deserve. =_=

[Vauxhall]

I see. Thank you for your insight, guys.

And Jess, I'm sorry about what's happened to you. That's atrocious behaviour but you shouldn't have let them get to you. You know what they say about people who are lower than you: they'll try to bring you down to make themselves look better. Stay strong! And don't be afraid to put yourself out there. :) There are bound to be people who will accept you as you are.

[Jess]

Maybe Vaux I just have people on both sides who are putting me down and sonetimes I feel like doing what my mom says I should do. Actually she just said it a hour ago "Jessica you could kill yourself today or tomorrow and no one would be sad we will all throw a party." If she only know how mean times I have almost ranaway or killed my self she wouldn't say that.

[Angel~]

How could your mother say something like that?! That is horrible!

[Jess]

Idk Angel probably bc she stopped being my mom when I was 8. So I grow up fast and the best I could to make my sisters life better. To me I feel like I did the right thing but my mom acting like I did the wrong thing and she also gets on me for not acting my age and not going out on dates or hang out with people my age

[Vauxhall]

That's horrible! Ignore her. Don't listen to the bad stuff.
Have you told your mother why you don't go out on dates or anything? 

[Pau]

don't worry Jess, you may not have a motherly mother in RL but you will always have a motherly cyber mom (a.k.a Lia), creepy (yet loving) cyber dad (a.k.a blob) and happy-go-lucky cyber sister (a.k.a me) here in transcendy. *h3ro

so ganbatte jess! so don't kill yourself! if you do i'll...i'll double kill you YOU GOT THAT!? *sob

so DEFINITELY NO SUICIDES 

[Jess]

I try to ignore her Vaux but sometimes it is hard to do that and I have told her why I dont go out and she says that is it not a good explanation.

Pau I try not to go that far but I think about it sometimes and I think I have the best cyber family anyone can have :)

[Angel~]

You're going to be fine Jess, just do things on your own time

[Jess]

I will try Angel, even though I dont have alot of free time

[Aurelia]

  Best cyber family? 

Dearie, you're the absolute sweetest person on earth~ <3

You are one of the best cyber daughters a cyber mother could have LOL xD Even though I'm still getting used to being a cyber mom haha!

[Angel~]

Our cyber family is amazing 

[Jess]

Aww Lia you are a great cyber mom and thanks for calling me the sweetest person of earth. I hope that it is a good thing

[Pau]

of course it is! you will always be our beloved  cyber family <3

me and jessica running in the setting sun~
 

[Jess]

Kaylyn:

I like that picture!

Just to let you know sissy does not like to be called by her first name

[Blobsndrees]

I'm forgotten.... *dies* 

[Jess]

No u r not blob, i still love you :)

[Blobsndrees]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAY
revival!!
*hands fireworks to lia*

[Angel~]

Careful with that now blobby, she might aim them at your face 

[Jess]

Oh no I hope not Angel

[Angel~]

He'll be fine, he's a blob 

[Jess]

Oh okay u scared me for a minute there

[Aurelia]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAY
revival!!
*hands fireworks to lia*

*lights match* >:3

and as sad as it is to admit it, no one could forget you blobbity... >.<

[Angel~]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAY
revival!!
*hands fireworks to lia*

*lights match* >:3

and as sad as it is to admit it, no one could forget you blobbity... >.<

That is sad...

[Aurelia]

*digs a hole and hides in it* >.<

[Angel~]

*drags Liapoo out in front of us* 

[Aurelia]

 

[Pau]

awww~ I love this family 

[Angel~]

As do I~ 

[Jess]

Me too :)

[Pau]

everyone in transcendy does~

back to topic:
I guess it would be bullies. hiding your bag inside the trash. sabotaging your project. and unforgetabble event that makes me
want to make a deal with the devil just to kill him. ugh he makes me feel

and i guess bullies were the reason why I hatet guys before ( '' -___-)

[Angel~]

I loathed pretty much everyone and then I got friends, so it's all good now :)

[Pau]

by the time i reached college I though that not all guys are demons so I decided to change.
right  now i' havin a happy college life ~ 

[Angel~]

Wahhh, I also want to go to college...

[Aurelia]

Bullies are horrible, but the worst is people who pretend to be your friend on the surface and then backstab.

[Angel~]

Oh yeah, they are terrible 

[Jess]

so true mom so true

[Pau]

so true, so true Y__Y

[Angel~]

People who steal your food are also on my list...

[Aurelia]

^ Not even  can describe it.



LOL jkjk, I'm not that scary. But still! 

[Jess]

that might start a fight

[Aurelia]

LOL when I'm starving? It will! >:3

[Jess]

that sounds like me lol

[Aurelia]

*High Fives Jess Poo* 

[Jess]

*high fives mom